Nowhere is it written that you need to be some young hot piece of ass to be a sugar baby. A sugar baby can be anyone. An older sugar baby is probably even better than a young one because they understand how the game works.Private Arrangements is the newest and leading sugar baby website for sugar babies of any age. They understand that this might not lead anywhere. The relationship may be temporary or it may go on forever. However, we also understand how scary it can be to put yourself out there in one conversation. Here are two major subjects that seem daunting to a mature sugar baby, but there’re ways to get over them.
This only applies to those sugar babies who have children. Whether you are older or younger, never hide the fact that you have children. It will come out eventually so be honest up front. Just because you are a mother doesn’t mean your sugar momma or baby will ever meet your kids.
However, being proud of your children does show that you have your priorities and that your life has something special and beautiful already in it. We don’t suggest that you post a hundred photos of you and your kids, but in your bio, you do need to make a note that you have a son or daughter or both and that they are your world.
Katherine Coulis, 38, was very open about the fact that she had two children in her life. "I had them in my mid twenties with my ex-wife. The relationship may have ended but the kids will last forever. I signed up on here and made it known that I was looking for someone to take care of me for once. To give me a break from my regular life and just focus on myself." She was pleasantly surprised to see how many sugar mommas respected her for how open she was about her personal life. "I found a few sugar mommas on Private Arrangements who treated me to spa days and weekend getaways when my ex had the kids. It felt great to just feel alive again. Even if all we did was stay in and watch Netflix and eat pizza, that would have been perfect for me."
24% of women who seek out sugar momma dating have children. When we asked sugar babies what they were looking for, they all said they wanted someone that one day they could introduce to their kids. They weren’t looking to replace a parent; they were just looking for someone to be on their team.
Sugar mommas will respect this. Women are known to be caring and compassionate. They also understand that being a single mother is hard and sometimes you just need someone to spoil you or to take care of you. There is no shame in being open and honest about your personal life. In the end, you will find someone who wants to make it more special.
Who knows? Maybe one day if things get serious you can introduce them to your children, include your sugar momma more in your family life. When you put yourself out there at any age, it can seem daunting. Especially if you have children and a life already started. It can feel as though you are starting anew when you try to meet someone. That is a great way to look at it. This is you starting a new chapter in your life. Your life might be great, but it can always be a bit more exciting. Do something for yourself.
Being that you are a mature woman, wouldn’t you want to date someone who is also a mature woman? Then why are you wasting your time with sugar mommas who are younger than you and do none of the things you want to do? You don’t want to do the clubs anymore. You’ve moved passed this. You want someone who wants to go golfing on Sundays and see the Opera when it comes to town. You want to eat at fancy restaurants where you have to dress up. You want a nice long car ride up the coast or staying at a bed and breakfast.
One of our favorite members Julia St. Claire, 39, has learned this lesson the hard way. "I went out with a girl who was ten years younger than me thinking I could keep up. While she was great and we hit it off, I just couldn’t keep up with her. All she wanted to do was party and club. That just isn’t me." But all hope wasn’t lost just yet. "Private Arrangements knows that dating older is a better relationship starter. Julia started dating sugar mommas in her age range and older and realized that this was something amazing. She actually had things in common with them and did things that people of her age should be doing. She shared with us that she couldn’t be happier than when she made the decision to date mature women. "Young girls are great, but not for me."
Younger sugar mommas will have a younger woman’s mentality. Unless you are prepared for an evening of dancing and drinking, it may be time to look elsewhere. It is unlikely that you will have a lot in common with a younger woman, unless you are watching Keeping Up With The Kardashians or know what the latest make up line at Sephora is. Stick to your age range, maybe even older. You will find someone perfect and on your level in no time flat.
Dating older or dating the same age is a great way to start that new chapter in your life. This could be the chapter where you can be who you want to be and want to be with.
How to find a sugar momma and how to be a sugar baby are two very different things. However, from the research we have gathered from Private Arrangements, we feel as though, you can be a successful mature sugar baby and have amazing relationships. We just hope that this article as well as out other blog posts will help you realize that being a sugar baby is sexy at any age. While Private Arrangements might be new and just getting its legs, it has a great sense about who should be with who and linking the right people together. Just remember that no matter what, age is nothing but a number. You’ve already got a great life, just make it better for yourself. You run your own life, don’t let your age run it for you.
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